This is now my official bloggie!
Thanks to pretty one who patiently taught me how to go about using it.
Thank-You Pretty One!
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Wednesday, August 08, 2007
Tuesday, August 07, 2007
Perfectly Imperfect
It's funny how books can give one inspiration & make a person realise things they never knew. Here's something i wrote about after reading the book "The Man from Perfect" n it made me realise wat i want...as in in a man. N, No. It's not the typical hot body, tanned skin, sexy, rich, hopelessly romantic, patient,cooks n cleans n qualities ( especially physical qualities ) that supposedly makes most girls go crazy for. I believe those can be regarded as bonus points if it happens to exist in the package.
What i really one is someone who is Perfectly Imperfect, whereby his imperfections seem perfect to me. Meaning that if i can live n accept his imperfections, that means he is my perfect guy.
Coz if at the start of everything, if he fits all the perfect criteria every girl wants in a man, then his imperfections won't make him perfect anymore would it?
Because, at the end of the day, nobody's perfect.
Probably, that's e reason why if two parties start off not liking each other, maybe even fighting n arguing, when they eventually accept each other, there is a high possibility that they might even end up falling for one another. Y? Because, they have seen the worst of each other ( the true colours ), n once they have been able to accept those imperfections, ( meaning seeing each other's negative points in a positive way) , they have reached that comfort level and there will be no expectations anymore as they r able to be themselves n at the same time accepted by the other party. That makes the perfect couple doesn't it?
But wat about those who start out being happy n liking each other, trying their best to impress the other party? In this case, it depends on the situation. For some, it does work out, especially if they have been close frens for a long time n i mean yrs long, n when they realise they have a thing for one another, it usually works out because being frens for years, they would have uncovered their imperfections right?
However, for those who like each other or think they like each other n do not take the time to get to know each other before jumping into a relationship, then for all u know, if they r going to fast, the relationship might not last. As they always say, a relationship that moves too fast, ends fast. Because, they think they know each other, when they actually don't.
This is so because, from the start , if u only see their perfections ( especially if it meets your criteria of your ideal soulmate) , that means that u have somehow set a certain standard n once u learn more about their imperfections, it would make your perfect soulmate imperfect because they can't maintain the expectations you had of them from the start.
N why is it difficult to maintain it?
That's because, from the start, they were not being themselves. Because they were too busy trying their best to impress the other party n living up to the other party's expectations. N due to that, it's hard for them to hit their comfort zone n be who they r beacuse of the fear of not being able to be the perfect soulmate of the other party. But at the end of the day, nobody's perfect, so when they try to be themselves and show another side of them which the other party has never seen, it sort of gives the impression that are changing , not for the better n if the other party can't accept it, that's when problems begin.
So at the end of the day, just be yourself, especially to the ones that u might have a thing for, coz if he is able to accept you for who you realli are from the beginning, then he is your forever. Wat's e point of pretending to be someone else so that you can be liked when you yourself don't feel comfortable about it which will eventualli lead to further disappointment right?
Because at the end of the day, nobody's perfect, so if you find someone who thinks that your imperfections are perfect, that means their yours to keep.
What i really one is someone who is Perfectly Imperfect, whereby his imperfections seem perfect to me. Meaning that if i can live n accept his imperfections, that means he is my perfect guy.
Coz if at the start of everything, if he fits all the perfect criteria every girl wants in a man, then his imperfections won't make him perfect anymore would it?
Because, at the end of the day, nobody's perfect.
Probably, that's e reason why if two parties start off not liking each other, maybe even fighting n arguing, when they eventually accept each other, there is a high possibility that they might even end up falling for one another. Y? Because, they have seen the worst of each other ( the true colours ), n once they have been able to accept those imperfections, ( meaning seeing each other's negative points in a positive way) , they have reached that comfort level and there will be no expectations anymore as they r able to be themselves n at the same time accepted by the other party. That makes the perfect couple doesn't it?
But wat about those who start out being happy n liking each other, trying their best to impress the other party? In this case, it depends on the situation. For some, it does work out, especially if they have been close frens for a long time n i mean yrs long, n when they realise they have a thing for one another, it usually works out because being frens for years, they would have uncovered their imperfections right?
However, for those who like each other or think they like each other n do not take the time to get to know each other before jumping into a relationship, then for all u know, if they r going to fast, the relationship might not last. As they always say, a relationship that moves too fast, ends fast. Because, they think they know each other, when they actually don't.
This is so because, from the start , if u only see their perfections ( especially if it meets your criteria of your ideal soulmate) , that means that u have somehow set a certain standard n once u learn more about their imperfections, it would make your perfect soulmate imperfect because they can't maintain the expectations you had of them from the start.
N why is it difficult to maintain it?
That's because, from the start, they were not being themselves. Because they were too busy trying their best to impress the other party n living up to the other party's expectations. N due to that, it's hard for them to hit their comfort zone n be who they r beacuse of the fear of not being able to be the perfect soulmate of the other party. But at the end of the day, nobody's perfect, so when they try to be themselves and show another side of them which the other party has never seen, it sort of gives the impression that are changing , not for the better n if the other party can't accept it, that's when problems begin.
So at the end of the day, just be yourself, especially to the ones that u might have a thing for, coz if he is able to accept you for who you realli are from the beginning, then he is your forever. Wat's e point of pretending to be someone else so that you can be liked when you yourself don't feel comfortable about it which will eventualli lead to further disappointment right?
Because at the end of the day, nobody's perfect, so if you find someone who thinks that your imperfections are perfect, that means their yours to keep.
Friday, August 03, 2007
An Unexpected Interview
I was happily sitting at info-counter, playing with my hair when i was approached by this malay couple.
They wanted information on the Amy Search show next week.
Great! A fan of Amy! I was more than happy to help.
And i thought they were just fans.
God knows how excited i was when i found out that they were Producers who were planning to get Amy to come to Singapore to perform in November!
They started interviewing me and asking me what i thought and which Malay or Indonesian bands or celebrities i would like to come to perform in Singapore.
So Fun! So Fun!
And so...the Minah in me came out..
I started naming all the classic rockers like Nash, Wings, Spoon and as for Indo grps, Once, Peterpan(Oh,My Ariel), Samson etc..
I even asked them if they could bring the collaborated 4 hot stars who did Isabella 98..hehe
They then parted and they told me that if i was coming to the concert, they would like me to join them . How sweet..!
Hoping to bump into them if i'm going...
RoCk NeVa DiEs!! hehe
Thursday, August 02, 2007
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